We consider an ergodic process on finitely many states, with positive entropy. Our first main result asserts that the distribution function of the normalized waiting time for the first visit to a small (i.e., over a long block) cylinder set B is, for majority of such cylinders and up to epsilon, dominated by the exponential distribution function 1-e-t. That is, the occurrences of so understood "rare event" B along the time axis can appear either with gap sizes of nearly exponential distribution (like in the independent Bernoulli process), or they "attract" each-other. Our second main result states that a typical ergodic process of positive entropy has the following property: the distribution functions of the normalized hitting times for the majority of cylinders B of lengths n converge to zero along a sequence n whose upper density